Permission to have a hard day
- Tammy Landsiedel

- Apr 7
- 1 min read
We all have days that feel heavier than others. Days where getting out of bed feels like a victory, where your heart aches, and the world seems just a bit too loud. If today is one of those days, I want you to hear this: it's okay. It's okay to feel out of sorts, to have a hard time, to not be your most productive or positive self. You’re human, and humans are beautifully complex.
So often, we’re taught to push through, to smile anyway, to ignore the weight and keep going. But what if the real strength lies not in pretending everything is fine, but in allowing ourselves to feel?
Research continues to show the emotional and psychological benefits of sitting with our feelings instead of stuffing them down. When we pause and acknowledge what we’re going through—without judgment—we actually begin to process and release those emotions. It's a form of self-compassion, and it's powerful. Letting yourself cry, rest, reflect, or even just breathe deeply through the overwhelm is not weakness. It’s wisdom.
Being kind to yourself on the hard days isn’t indulgent—it’s necessary. It gives you space to heal in a world that too often tells you to hurry past the hurt. So if you're struggling, please know this: you're not failing. You're simply living through a moment that needs care, not criticism.
Let today be a reminder that you deserve understanding—even from yourself.






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