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Monday Motivation: Take the Damn Walk
After two solid days of what I can only describe as biblical-level rain, I was starting to wonder if the universe was testing me—or just...
Jun 23, 20253 min read


Why Self-Care Is Not Selfish: Learning to Put Yourself First Again
Somewhere along the line, many of us were taught that self-care was indulgent, even selfish. That taking time for ourselves was something...
Apr 23, 20253 min read


Permission to Laugh: Finding Humor in the Most Unexpected Places
Grief is weird. It walks in like it owns the place, kicks its muddy boots off on your clean floor, and just... stays. It doesn’t care...
Apr 18, 20254 min read


Grief vs. Depression: Understanding the Difference and How to Cope with Both
After experiencing significant loss, it can be difficult to know what you’re actually feeling. Is it grief? Is it depression? Is it both?...
Apr 17, 20255 min read


Living with the Weight of Goodbye: Releasing the Guilt That Was Never Mine
When Dakota passed away, I wasn’t at home. I was at the hospital with my dad, who had suffered a stroke the day before. When the phone...
Apr 15, 20253 min read


Living with the Weight of Goodbye: Allowing the Goodbyes I Wasn’t Ready For
One of the hardest lessons I’ve learned on this journey is that grief has no script. Everyone experiences it differently. Some people...
Apr 11, 20253 min read


Grief Anniversaries and Triggers: Learning to Ride the Waves
Grief anniversaries and emotional triggers are topics that still challenge me deeply. I’ll be honest—this isn’t something I’ve mastered....
Apr 10, 20254 min read


Permission to have a hard day
We all have days that feel heavier than others. Days where getting out of bed feels like a victory, where your heart aches, and the world...
Apr 7, 20251 min read


That Quote? Yeah, I'd Like a Word With It.
So, this month's journal prompt is a real gem: "What's one 'inspirational quote' I encountered that made me want to scream?" Honestly,...
Apr 5, 20252 min read


The Weight of Goodbye: Quit Smoking
I quit smoking on January 30, 2023. I chose this date because I had failed several times before using the traditional “New Year’s...
Apr 4, 20252 min read


Letting Go of the 'What Ifs' and 'Should Haves'
Introduction Grief and loss often come with lingering questions: What if I had done something differently? I should have said more,...
Apr 3, 20255 min read


Living with the Weight of Goodbye: Currently
There are many areas of my life where I am ready to move forward, but right now, my biggest focus is moving forward after the loss of...
Mar 11, 20253 min read
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